Right now, love feels exhausting. You’re either over-giving and feeling unappreciated, or you’re attracting men but can’t seem to keep their interest. Maybe you’re in a relationship where you feel like the only one putting in effort, and no matter what you do, he still won’t step up. You’re tired of feeling unseen, undervalued, and second-guessing yourself at every turn. We get it—because we’ve been there. No one ever taught us how men truly think, act, and love. So like most women, you were left guessing, over-functioning, or playing games that never actually worked. The truth is, you don’t need to work harder to get the love you want—you just need the right tools. Menifestation™ changes everything. This is your chance to stop over-explaining, over-giving, and overthinking—and start attracting the love, commitment, and support you’ve always wanted.
Menifestation™ is the first process of its kind
that teaches women how to inspire men to step up, lead, and cherish them—without over-giving, chasing, or second-guessing. This is not about playing games or pretending to be someone you’re not. It’s about understanding men at their core so you can stop wasting energy and start getting exactly what you desire with ease. Through our step-by-step framework, you’ll learn:
✔How to decode men’s behavior
so you never have to wonder what he’s thinking or why.
✔How to preserve your energy & self-worth
so you feel cherished, supported, and deeply desired.
✔How to use your feminine influence
to inspire him to take the lead—whether you’re dating or in a long-term relationship.
This isn’t guesswork or outdated dating advice—it’s a proven system rooted in primal psychology, biology, and energy dynamics that makes relationships feel effortless.
Most women were taught that love requires sacrifice—that if he’s pulling away, you need to “do more” to fix it. But the truth is, men are wired to step up for women who inspire them, not chase them. Menifestation™ shows you how to stop over-giving and start receiving the love, leadership, and commitment you deserve—effortlessly.
Men aren’t complicated—they’re just different. But if you don’t understand how they think, you’ll waste energy trying to analyze mixed signals, over-texting, or feeling anxious about where you stand. This course teaches you how to read a man’s behavior like a blueprint, so you can confidently know whether he’s serious, when to lean back, and when to walk away—without the stress.
A man’s primal instinct is to protect, provide, and pursue—but only if he feels inspired to. If you’ve been carrying the mental and emotional load in your relationship, you don’t have to anymore. This course teaches you how to communicate your needs in a way that activates his leadership instincts so he naturally wants to step up, take the lead, and support you—without nagging, controlling, or burning yourself out.
For years, we felt like we were doing everything right in love—yet we were exhausted and questioning if our relationships had peaked. Hil was juggling a business, kids, and creative dreams but felt drained carrying the financial and emotional load. Ber felt like she was constantly competing with her husband—matching his energy, achievements, and contributions—leaving no space for her own desires and assumed bickering was just part of marriage.
For over 20 years, we’ve been obsessed with manifestation—constantly testing, refining, and experimenting with new ways to create our desires with ease. One day, we decided to push the limits and try something radically different.
Hilary wanted to manifest a cervical orgasm (yes, really). Ber wanted her husband to agree to new furniture for their home. Both desires required our husbands’ buy-in—so we tested something new.
Within a week, everything changed.
✨ Ber didn’t just get new furniture—she and her husband found a new level of harmony.
✨ Hilary didn’t just manifest what she wanted—she felt deeply supported and had energy to bring her passions to life.
That’s when we realized: We had been wasting energy trying to control men—when all we had to do was inspire them the right way.
We love this work because it gave us back our energy, our power, and our peace. When we shared it with friends, their relationships transformed too. That’s why we created Menifestation™—so women never have to struggle in love again.
This isn’t about working harder for love—it’s about unlocking the power you already have. Now, we’ve helped thousands of women stop over-giving, second-guessing, and feeling like they’re the only ones trying.
Whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or married, you already have the power—now learn how to use it.
This course gives you the exact tools to stop second-guessing, over-functioning, and feeling like you have to work for love. Whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or married, Menifestation™ teaches you how to decode men, master your feminine influence, and shift your energy so relationships feel easy and fulfilling. No more chasing, no more frustration—just deep connection, commitment, and the support you deserve.
Men aren’t complicated, they’re predictable—once you understand how they’re wired. This module teaches you how to stop misreading his actions, eliminate unnecessary frustration, and finally feel confident in your dynamic. You’ll learn:
✔ The hidden instincts that drive his behavior—and how to work with them, not against them.
✔ Why men pull away—and how to get them to lean in.
✔ What respect actually means to him (and how it unlocks his devotion).
Most women are operating from outdated beliefs about men, love, and their own worth—keeping them stuck in patterns that don’t serve them. This module reprograms your mindset so you attract, receive, and expect the treatment you truly deserve. You’ll learn:
✔ How to spot limiting beliefs that sabotage your love life—and rewrite them for good.
✔ Why confidence isn’t about being “high-value”—it’s about becoming magnetic.
✔ The #1 shift that makes men see you as irreplaceable.
Men love to step up for a woman who inspires them—but most women push them away without realizing it. This module teaches you the art of influence—so you can get what you want without force, frustration, or exhaustion. You’ll learn:
✔ The powerful shift from control to influence (and why it makes men obsessed with showing up for you).
✔ How to communicate in a way that makes him want to take the lead.
✔ The secrets to keeping his attention, deepening attraction, and inspiring lifelong devotion.
Get instant access to the full step-by-step process designed to help you decode men, master your feminine influence, and get what you desire—without exhausting yourself. This isn’t just theory—it’s a proven system rooted in primal psychology, biology, and energetics, giving you the exact tools to shift your dynamic effortlessly.
You’re not doing this alone. Inside Soft Girl Society, you’ll have a space to ask questions, share wins, and get insights from women on the same journey. This private community keeps you inspired, accountable, and supported as you implement the MENifestation™ process in real life.
Love evolves, and so do you. That’s why you’ll have lifetime access to all course materials, including video lessons, guided exercises, and new updates, so you can refine your approach, deepen your connection, and continue leveling up—whether you're dating, in a relationship, or married.
Menifestation™ is not just another “dating rules” course or generic relationship advice. It’s a step-by-step framework rooted in primal psychology, energy dynamics, and communication strategies that help you get what you want from men without force, over-giving, or frustration. Most advice tells women to “be high-value” without showing them how—this course gives you the exact tools to inspire men’s best behavior naturally so you feel cherished, supported, and deeply desired.
Will this work for me if I’m single, dating, or in a long-term relationship?
Yes! Whether you’re single, dating, or married, Menifestation™ is designed to meet you where you are. If you're single: you’ll learn how to attract and filter for the right men effortlessly so you stop wasting time on the wrong ones. If you're dating: you’ll understand how to keep his interest, deepen connection, and inspire commitment. If you're in a relationship/married: you’ll learn how to bring back the spark, get him to step up, and create a dynamic where he adores and supports you fully. No matter where you are, this course teaches you how to inspire devotion and leadership from men—without exhausting yourself.
I’ve tried other courses before, and nothing worked. How do I know this will?
Unlike other courses that teach surface-level tactics, Menifestation™ works because it’s based on primal instincts and energy shifts that men can’t help but respond to. We teach you exactly how men are wired so you stop wasting energy on strategies that don’t work. Plus, our students see results within days—not months—because these tools are designed to work with how men naturally think, act, and love.
What’s included in the course?
Inside Menifestation™, you get immediate access to:
✔ The full step-by-step Menifestation™ framework with all three key pillars—Decode Him, Self-Belief, and Effortless Influence.
✔ In-depth video lessons breaking down exactly how to shift your energy, communication, and approach with men.
✔ Worksheets & exercises to rewire your beliefs, master your feminine influence, and implement what you learn immediately.
✔ Lifetime access so you can go through the material at your own pace and revisit it whenever you need a refresher.
What if I have questions or need extra support?
This course is designed to be clear, actionable, and easy to implement—but if you ever want extra guidance, we’ve got you.
Inside Soft Girl Society, our private community, you’ll have a space to ask questions, connect with other like-minded women, and celebrate your wins in real time.
For more personalized support, we offer private 2:1 strategy calls to help you fine-tune your approach, troubleshoot challenges, and get direct feedback on your situation.
If you want rapid transformation and tailored consulting, our 6-week 2:1 mentorship program gives you hands-on guidance so you can implement these shifts in real time—getting faster results with even more confidence.
That said, most women start seeing results just from applying what’s inside the course—because every tool is designed to work with how men naturally think, act, and love. You already have the power—this course just shows you how to use it.
For less than the cost of another dating mistake, a couples’ therapy package, or years of frustration, Menifestation™ gives you the proven framework to inspire his best, deepen connection, and create the love you truly desire—without chasing, over-giving, or exhausting yourself. Here’s what you’ll get when you enroll:
✔ The Complete Menifestation™ Framework –A step-by-step system rooted in primal psychology and energy dynamics, designed to shift your energy, master your feminine influence, and effortlessly inspire love, leadership, and devotion.
✔ In-Depth Video Lessons + Guided Exercises – Clear, high-impact training designed to help you rewire your beliefs, embody these shifts, and apply them in real life—so results come naturally.
✔ Proven Scripts, Strategies & Support – Know exactly what to say and do to activate his instincts and create deeper connection—plus access to Soft Girl Society, our private community where you can ask questions, get insights, and celebrate your wins.
✔ Lifetime Access for Continuous Growth – Relationships evolve, and so do you. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or married, you can revisit the course at any stage to refine your approach and deepen your connection.
This is your chance to stop struggling in love and start creating the effortless connection, commitment, and support you deserve. Click below to join Menifestation™ now.
I just want to say thank you for these tools! It's only been a few DAYS and my husband just told me that whatever you're doing is working because I have noticed a complete 180. I was shocked when he said that. I have just barely begun this journey! He also talked about how he's been feeling more confident lately and is considering finally looking for a new job (something he's talked about for years).
This shit works. I'm impressed!
I feel more at peace in partnership and so feminine. Thanks for your videos!
Your advice works sooooo well, I changed my tone naturally with the new tools. I've been so happy and in my feminine I've even quit my job and I feel so much lighter when we talk. I am just working on the emotional regulation, but it comes easy because he is able to hold space with the tools you guys teach.
When we started sharing Menifestation™, women weren’t the only ones having breakthroughs—men saw it too. They validated what we teach, proving that when you understand them at their core, relationships become effortless. Don’t just take our word for it—see what men have to say.
✔ You’re done wasting energy on men who won’t commit or step up.
✔ You want to feel cherished, pursued, and deeply supported.
✔ You’re open to learning a new way that actually works.
✖ You believe men alone are the problem and aren’t open to shifting your perspective.
✖ You’d rather control and criticize than inspire and influence.
✖ You’re not willing to experiment with what you learn.
Imagine waking up every day feeling cherished, supported, and completely at ease in your love life. No more chasing, over-giving, or wondering if he’s losing interest. Instead, you’re confidently receiving devotion, leadership, and commitment—without having to force it.
✔ If you’re dating, you’ll instantly recognize the men worth your time and effortlessly inspire the right one to pursue you.
✔ If you’re in a relationship, you’ll watch your partner step up for you in ways you never thought possible—without nagging, criticizing, or over-functioning.
✔ If you’re married, you’ll bring back the spark, restore harmony, and finally feel like a team—without the exhaustion and resentment.
This isn’t wishful thinking—it’s the reality for the women who learn Menifestation™. The moment you shift your approach, everything changes.
Let love be easy.
We’re Ber and Hil—twin sisters, relationship consultants, and the creators of Menifestation™, a process that has transformed thousands of women’s love lives. With degrees in Psychology (UCLA) and Communication (UC San Diego), plus a combined
30+ years of experience in influence, energy, and sales, we’ve mastered the art of getting what we desire—without force or frustration. Beyond our personal experiences, our backgrounds in psychology, communication, and high-stakes sales made us obsessed with understanding what truly drives behavior. Once we discovered how to inspire men’s devotion, we knew we had to share it.
We’ve now helped thousands of women—single, dating, and married—learn how to inspire leadership, commitment, and deep connection without exhausting themselves.
Using these principles, we manifested our dream lives in Byron Bay, Australia—a place known for its magic, beauty, and magnetic energy.
Now, we’re teaching you how to do the same—in love, in life, and beyond.
Menifestation™ isn’t just a course—it’s a blueprint for the love and life you truly deserve.
If you’ve made it this far, you already know something needs to change.
You’re done with the guessing games, the frustration, and the exhausting cycle of trying to figure men out.
Menifestation™ is your shortcut to effortless love, deep connection, and the kind of relationship where you feel cherished, supported, and pursued—without working for it.
You don’t need to overthink this. The women who take action see results
faster than they ever imagined.
This is your time.
Join us inside Menifestation™ today.
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